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writes:I suppose this is more of a "share your experience" question. I just feel quite low because it's been 8 months since my ex broke up with me but I'm still not fully over him. But I know that he's moved on with his life, and he got over me pretty quickly. He said he loved me and I loved him [we were each other's first loves] but he got over me so fast.Has anyone else been the one who's taken so long to get over an ex, even though the ex has already moved on long ago?And how do I get over the fact that he stopped caring about me so quickly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for that, you've made me feel a lot better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): yes,but it woke me up to the fact that everything she said was just worthless. it helped me make it stay a permanent break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): Although you may feel so alone right now in this pain, trust me, you are not. All over the world there are people just like you with the same problem, including myself. Its an awful feeling when you still care for someone who no longer cares for you. It hurts like hell. One guy, my first love, split with me after a few months. I still loved him like after 2 years even when he had met someone else and had moved in with her. It gradually faded though.....and then I meet someone else who I fell for instantly, and he broke up with me because he was moving away and that has hit me like a lead weight. He finished it 3 weeks ago, and Im still heartbroken. By looking at his facebook page, he has moved on too, so I deleted him. I cant even explain how hard it is to move on when you want someone so bad.....It doesnt make you abnormal cos its taking you a while to get over someone. And guys usually get over girls alot more quickly for some reason. All I can say is that you try and find something to take your mind off him, go out with your friends, learn something new.....do anything that does not involve him or thinking about him. Gradually you will find that your feelings for him have faded and you will be ready to find love with a new man. But trust me, broken hearts take time to heal and everyone is different and will mend at different rates. You are not alone sweetie x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, that helps so much.
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