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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:What makes up a Player? This guy i know might be one but Im also confused about what to do about it.This guy who used to like me and i still like has been lying to me and seeing other girls while we were hanging out. Now, at work, he likes this girl and holds hands with her, makes her gifts and goes on dates with her. Thing is, he is leaving in 3 weeks and she's going back to another province. I extremely hurt seeing him like this with her and i cant avoid it cause we work together and hang out in the same group of friends. What can i do to get over this? I can't seem to get over him or the fact i was replaced and he's now flaunting her in front of me when they wont be together in a little bit anyways. Help please.
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 How can he be the one if he's disrespecting you like this? Is the reason you like him so much is it's a challenge for you to tame him? If he's leaving in 3 weeks...let it go. Yeah it hurts..yeah..you'll miss him. But you'll get over it and another guy will come along to make you number one..and not number 2. You deserve better. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): Perhaps you should get help....love addicts anonymous, a therapist. Here's the deal, he's not flaunting her in front of you, he's not even thinking of you! If he engages in relationships with more than one woman at a time, he is a player. You have nothing but hurt in your future if you continue to pine away for him. Perhaps you should find another job?
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