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writes: Just wanted your take on this--I was with a guy I liked, last time-I kept slipping over in front of him because it was raining and I had really slippery shoes. He made a comment- "if you slipped into the tracks (we were at the train station) - I wouldn't be that kind of gentlemen". I think it was his attempt to be funny, he does sometimes make bad jokes (oo cringeworthy ones), but does that show a complete lack of regard for me? You wouldn't say that if u like a girl? Or am I reading too much into it. He has not asked me out properly though- does that mean his playing around?Thanks v much guys /girls x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): I am such a clumsy person and im always falling over things banging my head makin bimbo comments and generally making a tit of myself... but my boyfriend finds it all very cute and funny! he's made little jokes like 'if you ever tripped and fell over in the street id keep walking and pretend i didnt know you!' i brush them off because i know he's only joking! i doubt that if somebody slipped and fell on the tracks that he wouldnt help though, that would be cruel and possibly dangerous, so dont worry he was probably only joking.. see how that relationship goes and you'll learn more about him and his sense of humour!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): It sounds like his sense of humour is off with yours and that doesn't make him a bad person.
Asked you out properly? What script do you have and do you send this script out to those you view as a possible date/bf?
Just let things fall into place...enjoy and don't read so much into it.
If you are venturing into the sexual intimacy arena and sitll unsure of your status...don't go into the arena.
If you, yourself know what you like, admire, expect from a BF/potential husband...that is all you truly need when deciding if some dude is going to be passable.
Their is no perfect man and I don't think a woman truly wants perfection as they themselves are far from perfect. They want someone they can feel comfortable with, safe with-someone who is reliable and emotionally available, trustworthy.
You know.
Best Wishes and have a Happy New Years.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (26 December 2006):
 I have a question. Why would you read sooooo much into one little comment/joke? In the context of what you've said, it's impossible for anyone to really make a guess at what it could mean. Nobody could possibly have any idea what he was thinking. If you want to figure this guy out, give him some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): Well he obviously hasn't made a good impression on you, by saying those things. But then again maybe he found it annoying that you kept slipping over! It doesn't look good, had he had a few drinks before he said these things to you? Not that having a drink makes what he said excusable. If he asks you out, then see him one more time and if his attitude still bugs you, then he's not the one for you. But I'd leave all the chasing up to him, that's the only way you will know if he's genuine or not.
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