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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hello I was hoping someone could shed some light on my situatiton. I have been in a relationship for nearly five years, we live in different cities and try to meet at least once a month. We have had our ups and downs in the past and always seemed to get through things. Anyway we met up a few days before xmas, exchanged presents, went out etc etc. However, I had to leave early the next morning as I had to work and catch a coach to my home city. Well everything seemed to be fine, we were both happy. But since this time, I have texted he hasn't replied, also he hasn't returned my call. He didn't reply when I wished him Merry Xmas on Xmas day.I feel really hurt, he gave me a wonderful present and know I'm feeling all confused and dejected. I am not going to send anymore texts or call him. But why do you think he's playing these games after we have known each other for so many years? Not only that it's Christmas time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): I don't know what is going on, but is it possible that he did not receive your texts? I personally hate text messaging as a way to oommunicate especially in a romantic relationship, as so often it seems impersonal, and can be misunderstood because of its brevity and lack of body language, tone, and facial expressions.....80% or more of human communication is not from our words alone....
Also, have you been going on a long period of time with onely once a month visits This does not make for a real strong romantic relationshp, and perhaps you may want to consider that it is not satisfying to one or both of you to continue on this way....timing is everything as they say, and perhaps it is time to move on with love....and let each other go....sorry, but you may want to talk to him about this very thing.
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