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female
age
26-29,
*HM
writes:Ok so...recently ive been attending to the gym. ( 4-5 months to be exact) since i got there i have many friend relationships but for a strange reason its only boys. One day i finished my daily routine i was leaving but then... i saw this handsome boy entering the gym and we both had eye contact, we met and we talked a lot, we went out, talked and get to know each other better. He met my mum , dad ( well my whole family) we both said we liked each other so we started going out not like boyfriend and girlfriend but in plans for it. The thing is that since the beginning he knew my dad was a bit jelous. One day i got unsure of the whole thing between us because of my dad ( my dad doesnt want to know of me having a boyfriend)so i told him and we stop talking for about 2 weeks, but then i just couldnt resist and i told him that i missed etc... so we continued going out but i was the one calling him, texting him and looking for him. ( one time we said we were going to meet in a place at 5 and he arrived at 7.15!) i was getting tired of it. But still i gave him lots of opportunities i invited him again to my house at 5.30 at 8 o'clock he called me telling me that he was almost there and that he was going to call me when he was outside my house ( he never called, he didn't arrive, and never apologized) so i got tired and didnt talk to him and watever so.. i guess he knows there is nothing between us anymore. To make the story short i found out that he was gay ...! someone told me that he wanted to hide that he was gay and considering that In the gym it is said that i am '' the prettiest girl of the whole gym'' he wanted to take advantage of that .. i really dont care about that stuff but what frustrates me is the fact that he made me suffer a lot for nothing!!!. There is a lot of time since we dont talk and i have met more boys at the gym which actually are very good looking and treat me like a girl..but i met a guy which is 16 years older than me :s and i think i am liking him too much..he is very nice with me he has details with me that no one has.But i am scared cause he gives me signals that he likes me too but i dont know what to do .. i am really interested for him ( really falling for him) but seriously i cant think... i mean what can i do ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): You are way too young (a minor!) to be getting involved with a man who is 16 years older than you. What would a man who is about 30 want with a young teen girl? This is a big red flag, and this man is probably some kind of pedophile. Keep away from him.
As for the gay guy who used you, I guess it's something you've got to chalk up as a live-and-learn kind of thing. If happened, and there's nothing you can do about it, and it sucks, yes, but you can't change it. Hopefully the guy will apologize to you one day and will come to terms with and better understand his sexuality. Maybe he will even apologize. But you can't dwell on it, so shrug it off and get on with your life.
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