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writes:I was having a conversation online with a male friend of mine the other day. We've been friends for several years and a couple of months ago he moved to a new province for a job. Well I was telling him about my cousins wedding and how I caught the bridal bouquet. He wanted to know what that meant so I told him that it means I'm supposed to be the next to get married. He answered"so what's going to happen now"? I said good question and he said "hopefully it won't be anyone from (my city)". Do you think he was saying he was hoping I'd end up with him because he lives somewhere else now?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (12 May 2006):
 My dear I wouldnt read too much into this comment, I dont personally think it was a "flirty" comment but I am not trying to put a dampener on things! I am just trying to be realistic. The best way to find out is to drop a few hints to try and find out if he does like you. Best of luck. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): I think it would be impossible to say based on what you've said. It could just be innocent flirting. I have quite a lot of female friends and we do sometimes say flirty comments to each other but it's not because we want to be together, it's because it makes each other feel good, it makes you feel desired.
On the other hand, Adrienne could be right, he could be saying it because he literally does not want you to be with any one else.
Best thing you can do is keep talking to him and see how things go. Good luck! :)
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reader, Adrienne +, writes (12 May 2006):
I sense some strong territoriality here. He does not seem to be directly flirting with you but on the same token he is letting you know that he doesn't want to see you with someone else, very alpha male. Depending on the individual the bold type would be able to come out and say "...wow I gotta pick out a tux", or something that relates to him and not simply excluding others. Seeing you are friends with this guy, if you know he likes to beat around the bush, or is not very direct then he may be hinting that he has a thing for you. However, if he is up front then it does not really seem like he is flirting.
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