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writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Everything between is great. We love hanging out with eachother and we spend alot of time together...on the phone and inpesrson! but i don't know lately something doesn't feel right...like this other day we were on the phone and he we were fighting about something stupid like we always do but this time as a joke i asked him "whats the problem?..you don't wanna be with me?" and he replied, i don't know..and i was shocked..he said he loves me alot and he cares alot about me but he doesn't know if were gonna end up together! i mean i don't understand what he means by that? i cried soo much on the phone because i love him soo much more then anything. i asked him if thats the case then y didn't he tell me before and he said he didn't want to because i would start crying and he doesn't want that. I don't get it? If he cares then y is he sayin that?.. we talked about it and at one point we broke up that night and i hung up but he called back couple of times and i picked up and asked him what he wanted he said i just wanted to go on break! and i don't belive in breaks and i said no ..if you love me then you wouldn't say u want to go on a break but if thats the case then we should stop seeing eachother and we should just stop talking for good. He didn't say anything and then all the sudden hes like don't break up with me i love u so much u mean soo much to me..i don't get it if he loves me and wants to be with me then what is the problem i love him soo much..and we finally talked about it and we said we'll just leave it and let it be..i know he loves me ..then y is he confused..? is it worth waiting for?? HELP ME!!! but the question does he really LOVE ME?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): hey...i think...he likes u alot but he doesnt love you...
im sorry for that...or..he might have been found a new girl or something....if u really need him, try to know everything..and reach the reason..dont let him go without telling u "why"
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): ok i am on the same boat and girl move on. my ex-boy friend asked me for a break but wanted me to be his support system but it is impossible to be best friends because you love him too much...if he really loved you then he would stuck it out with you. he would never hurt you. and you sound like your in pain and i know the feeling i tried to stuck it out for a month.. and it does not work i say move on an make it a closed chapter... if a man really loves you he would want to always be with you and there will be no doubts...
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (27 October 2008):
hiyah hes obviously really confused and has tried to put it into perspective through you by speaking his mind and it doesnt always make sense. hes really messed up about what he wants but seeing yu get emotional and how you reacted to the break idea he wanted to reasure ou he doesnt want to loose you for good he just needs to sort his head. this doesnt answer the question yes of couse he loves you because nobody but he can answer that but it does give some indication that he cares deeply for your feelings and the way you see him.I think hes just confused about his feelings in general it gets serious sometimes and anything can trigger a rush of emotion and its more difficult for guys to show and handle it in the right way so they try to keep it bottled up, this obv not always being the best as when it comes pourin out it all comes at once and it can be hard to hear whan it dnt make sense at all i think he needs time as awell as reasurance- he knows you love him and i think you really do so if you think hes worth the wait then tell him he can have time but its not a forever thing as you need to know where you stand. im sorry i havent answered your question much best of luck x :)
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