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writes:hello . :) I've not long split up with my boyfriend.I said to him that i wanted a break because he was away on holiday for 2 week's and i was getting invited to party's and i reaaly wanted to go to them. So, i said can we go on a brake. I wasn't going to these party's to get on anyone just to have a good time but that dosnt seem right without him.So, we went on this break and he returned back from holiday and we didnt talk. So i thought it was over and changed my bebo status and everything saying single. The thing is we both reaaly love each other still but he is seeing this girl caled tania that he has only met twice - three times and who is a year younger then him. We always know. We know we both love each other, he just dont want to hurt tania. I really still love him and this is hurting me too. What am i supposed to do?HELP please. miracle's
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reader, ZeeZee  +, writes (16 September 2008):
No offense, but this has got to be one of the most insane things that I have ever heard. You went on 'break' simply over him going on holiday and you wanting to go to a party? What if you ever got married? Would you get divorced if he had to go away on business?
I think you should be talking to him rather than asking for advice here. You need to have a sit down and figure out how each other feel, because if he's not willing to break up with this short-term girlfriend to be with you then either he's not feeling the way you think he does, or he is assuming that you aren't feeling the way he does. There has to be some sort of miscommunication and I'm fairly sure that it all stemmed from that 'break' the two of you took.
If my boyfriend ever wanted a 'break' to go to a party while I was on holiday I would assume the worst. Maybe that's what he's doing.
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