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writes: i have a guy who always stays home, is always on the phone because being on the phone is his hobbie. He love the phone but he doesnt like to call people. should i call him everyday or does that mean he got mr under control because im always the one calling him? Should i worry about him being on the phone all the time? The thing is we arent going out but we do things... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 January 2007):
If i was you i would let him call you. I can't believe he just sits in all the time on the phone.
I used to go out with a girl similar to that, she never used to call anyone, she used to drop call people, like let it ring once, then expect people to call her back, so so irritating.
My advice tho would be no don't call him.
good luck x
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reader, Reebe +, writes (9 January 2007):
Being on the phone is his hobby? I wouldn't bother calling him, I would go out and have some fun. Who wants to sit inside and chat on the phone all day?
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reader, ingotblue +, writes (9 January 2007):
Hmm how can he love being on the phone and not like to call people?
I think that you are doing all the running, if you would like more from him then you need to talk to him.
If we get down to basics you are paying for the phone calls it sounds like he doesnt like to fork out his own cash.
He likes to have the freedom that being single provides and have these people call him it gives him a sense of being needed and useful.
Maybe you need to tell him how you feel and that you would appreciate it if he showed you that he'd like to talk to you.
Instead of you calling him all the time?
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