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He loves and cares about me but just wants to be friends

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Question - (26 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2009)
A male Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I recently entered into a relationship 3 months ago with a really great guy, and he told me that he felt a lot towards me, the time we spent together was just heaven and I was convinced that he was in love with me so I allowed my guard down.

He broke up with me on sunday 2 weeks ago, and has told me that he realised he was simply not inlove with me, since then he has sent texts calling me beautiful and saying that he loves me and cares about me but just wants to be a friend.

We recenently had a bad meeting where he told me exactly where I stand , and I am worried that I have lost him for good, I am very low and really could do with some advice.

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A male reader, 2old4this United States +, writes (26 March 2009):

2old4this agony auntSome of that may be true Tewebag, But the bottom line is that this guy is playing games and it is time for you to clean break the relationship. Move on hon, and I'm a guy too so I also know. There is a chance he really cares for you, he just aint ready yet. So move on for now, but maybe call him up in a few months to see how he's doing.

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A male reader, Tewebag United States +, writes (26 March 2009):

he broke up with you two weeks ago and you said you were in the realisnship three months ago, that means you were dating like 2.5 months? not really that long of a time for a guy (i know since i ammmm one) to fall in love with a girl and seriously mean it. he probley said it to you since you said it to him (im just guessing) and wasnt really meaning it. with the calls and texts, were you sleeping with him? (nothing aganist it just trying to figure it out) if you were it is just simply that he wants to get with you to have sex. since he cant get any right now from his current things or girlfriend.

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