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writes: the person ive liked for ages has just got a girlfriend, i know he likes me too but what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): I concur with Bonym. You can’t do anything. Your male friend obviously doesn’t want to be with you or he'd be by your side, right now. If any thing dear, he's just flirting with you. Don't take his overtures too seriously. And are you sure you want a guy who would flirt and charm other females, anyways? So as much as it hurts, you have to just let this one go. You say you like him a lot, so then support happiness with this other girl, even though it doesn’t involve you and try to respect his gf and her relationship with him. As difficult as this sounds, what are your realistic alternatives? No one here can give you the go ahead to interfere in his relationship. So sorry to say this..there are no alternatives. Good luck and take care
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reader, cfliberal +, writes (9 May 2006):
Leave things be. If he'd cheat on one person to be with you, then he'd do the same thing to you when someone else he fancies comes along. If you're meant to be together, then his relationship with the other person will run its course and you'll find your way to each other. In the meantime, take care of yourself and concentrate on enjoying your life. You might be surprised at what you find if you open yourself up to things rather than waiting on this person!
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reader, bonym  +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Nothing my friend, while he is with someone I would not recommend anything. What can you do? While he is with someone and you start something, you will be having an affair, so while he is taken you have to stay out of the picture and try to move on, may sound obvious and I appreciate its easier said than done, but my friend, please, dont let it become an affair. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006): If he likes you and has "just" got a girlfriend, he may just see you as a friend. If he is interested in you as more, he will end his relationship and ask you out. Make sure u don't be an ego booster to him by hanging around waiting for a chance - if he likes u as much as u think he is he will do the running.
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