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writes:hi...i really need some advise and asap.i went out with this guy for over 3yrs and i broke up with him about two yrs ago...i've never even got close to getting over him and i still like him alot...i love him...he added me on instant messenger earier this yr and he said he still loves me and that he misses me...i told him how i feel and we get on great but heres the problem he has a gf who he really likes as well as me....i've read some of the other questions a little bit similar to this one.....is he stringing me along or does he mean it?.....to help u with details he asks me to go see him at work and he looks at me in school.i really need your advise...please help!-x-
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Don't pay his game. He wants you to be the girl on the side. He does not love you, he likes that he has easy access to you with no commitment. If you want more don't get involed with him becouse you already know he is not willing to give it. You are only setting yourself up for a big hurt. Save yourself the pain and move on. You deseve some one who whats what you want. If he wanted you he would not be with her. Its that simple. I dont care if she is crazy, they have kids, he does not want to hurt her. What ever reason he gives you why he is staying it is a lie. He is staying becouse he wants to.
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reader, chely2294 +, writes (21 December 2006):
 Looks like to me he is stringing you along but i Could be wrong, Ask him to meet you up somewhere as friends, and talk to him, ask him Does he really mean it and and would he leave his Girlfriend for you if you asked him out? if he says no, Just stay Friends and don't do anything Stupid like kiss him, that will just leave you confused! Make sure, his girlfriend doesnt find out mind, dont go and see him at work meet up! I've been in a simlar Situation, Trust me.
GoodLuck!
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