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writes:Hi there is this girl at my work and we both got drunk one night and i admit i really liked her. Then she admite she liked me but the problem is she has all readdy got a boyfriend who she has been seen for over to years now. But the thing is we phone each other up for a long periods of time like 3 hours or more. The we both start talkin dirty to each other. Her boyfriend is in uni at the momment and we work close togehter. She told me she dont like having sex with him but when she last meet up with her boyfriend (the other night.) she told me she had sex with him but was thinkin about me all the time. She come round my house last night to sort things out but we just colud not sort it out. But nothing happend apart from just talking and a little bit of flirting. I just dont know if i am been lead on or not or does she really like me or does she want us 2 b a us. How do i win her in my arms cause i really like her and i feel like im fallin in love. Please help me i am so confused and i usaly dont get confused so easy. P.S. She is not my first love. Thank you for your time and effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey people. Well me and this girl she come round my house and she said to her mum and dad she was going round mine. He perants were cool about it all. Untill her boyfriend phoned up and that when it started to kick off. He started to get stress out about it all. So we started to cuddle and then we kissed like five minutes later. Now i feel so confussed and i got to work with her tomorow. I really like her and i cant stop thinking about it and it driving me mad. Can any one please help me and give me some guidence in this situation. I realllly realllly like her and Im completly lost. She must be as well. Thank you to everyone who has helped!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): How can someone desire another who can be dishonest and cheat on someone they supposedly love and care for?
How can such a person be seen as attractive and reliable? Trustworthy?
Sex and that she can deliver should not blind you.
Stop it; chances are BF will show up and you will be forgotten.
Show some self love and self respect and guess what? The right woman who can be available and honest will see you and go WOW...I need to be with him, he's such an amazing guy.
Best Wishes and Happy Holidays.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell we spoke last night and she said she wants me. She also said can i wait untill after Christmas & new year. When we did speak it was really hard to talk about the situation. Its really hard 4us to talk at work cause were never on our own. and her mum also works there to. So its a trick situtation. I dont want to get hurt. Yea i dont want to get hurt. But i really like her and i cant stop thinking about her. I wanna thank for the people who helps me in this situation and for spending there spair time reading my questions!! Thankx everyone!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): The most difficult thing to accept is that it is impossible to do anything to win someone over. The feelings and chemistry is there or it isn't. All you can do is just be yourself, she might or might not be in love with you. The only way you will know is to have a very nice conversation with her and ask her if she would have an exclusive relationship with you. Isn't it better to know than wonder and open yourself up to be hurt?
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