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writes:i want to tell my friend that i would like to be more than friends but am not sure if this is a good idea.we met a few years ago and i know for sure he had a crush on me for quite a while. i made it clear that i didn't feel the same and we became really good friends.over the summer we spent lots of time together and i began to like him rather a lot. i didn't say anything because i thought that we have now become such good friends, it would be impossible to cross this line.i now live in another city to him and he has a girlfriend but i can't help thinking about him and thinking that i have made such a mistake by not making my feelings clear before. i don't want to upset him by telling him how i feel now we live far apart and he has met a girl but if i don't i will just have to oppress my feelings forever and never know if he feels the same about me.what to do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Well i know how you feel even tho im only 13 i have been threw that.Me and my freind have known each other for ages and i reccently found out he had a crush on me butt i though nothing of it and as the years have went on ive started to have feelings for him.we used to fight alot and i coldnt bare to be near him then we started haning around and,then i went wiff him but now i ended it over something silly and hes moved on with not only a girl but one of my freinds!anyway what i think you should do is get in contact with him and dont brake him and his new girlfreind up talk to him and ask him if he has any feelings for you still and if he says yes then take it from there but if he says no then i know its hard but you will have to move on from their.well all the best to you and hopefully you will write back let me know how you got on love aimee xx
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