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*abygurll
writes:ok i asked my boyfriend to be honest with me and tell the truth, i said "do you like anyone besides me?". he said no but i think sonni(a girl he's liked for awhile) is hot which i understood because im not the only pretty one in the world but 2 days later he said ask me one thing ill tell the truth, i asked again he said i like sonni and jessica but i love you..so now i dont know if i can or should trust him i think he is confused and needs time to think about who he really wants but i dont want to break up with him
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reader, babygurll +, writes (28 August 2009):
babygurll is verified as being by the original poster of the question what are you talking about i never asked him questions and i said help not make me feel bad linz09 ok hes being really mean to me and hangs all over me he doesnt even hang on me that way so no he said he is trying not to like other girls oh and that makes sense no it doesnt he shouldnt like another person while hes with me i mean he can but i mean then break p with me soo idk im confused and hate life right now so really if you have nothing nice to say dont say it
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reader, SmithiieXoxO  +, writes (24 August 2009):
 im 14 nd i think tht you should dump him cos hes basically having second thoughts about dating you if hes saying another girl is hot. my ex used to always say that he thought other girls were fit(means hot in the uk) and i dumped him because girls out age are insecure about our looks anyway so we dont need out boyfriends remeinding us that were not the prettyest girl in the world. i dont know about you , but i like to be the centre of attention , especially when im with a boy so i show off a lot but im good at it so its okay. so if your trying to be the centre of attention , all eyes on you, turning heads and so on and then your boy says there are girls that are hotter than you. no. thats not acceptable in my opinion. other older people would say all kinds of stuff about relationships and love and feelings but were young teens and we just want 2 have fun , really lol. good luck ! xx
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reader, Flip0709 +, writes (23 August 2009):
 okayy... ive been in this same situation. your best bet would be to dump him... but thats just me talking... because if you dont dump him, he WILL dump you first... if he has any other mutual feelings for another female, thats more than one person he will want to be in a relationship with... or maybe you should make him jealous by hanging onto a guy in front of him...?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (23 August 2009):
 I think you are feeling a little insecure and jumping to some conclusions based on that. Yes, he likes someone else, but that doesn't mean he wants to break up with you. You can like other people and still want to be with your girlfriend every day. You have a certain special effect on him that no one else can match. So, stop worrying, and just enjoy him being with you.
Good luck.
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reader, linz09 +, writes (23 August 2009):
 hi ...he said ask me again and replied i like these two other girls BUT i love u..Doesnt that answer your question, we are only human and we can like other people in this life, but when it comes to loving someone which is a lot deeper and special he said he loves you. I really wouldn't keep asking him these question I would just take time out and enjoy the relationship you have, have fun, enjoy each others company and stop asking stuff it makes you look a little insecure. Now go and have some fun together lifes too short to over analyze everything...plus it gives you headache :)
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