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writes: hey all cupids, i don't know if any of you will remember but im the girl that put a post on here a few weeks ago about the boy that was being nasty to me then nice . you lot told me that he liked me which i later found out he did. he recently found out that i liked him to but now he is avoiding me he wont even speak to me what should i do? xx plz help xx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (28 November 2006):
Like Shadypop said, don't run after him. You have your life to live and it doesn't revolve around him. He should be the one to approach you. I don't know why he is avoiding you now if he likes you. He needs to sort himself out. So give him time and maybe he'll approach you and tell you what you need to know.
Until he approaches you ignore him and get on with your life.Maybe he's trying the whole 'treat em mean keep em keen' thing. If that is the case then let him know you don't have time for that kind of thing. Either he likes you or he doesn't. Life is too short to wait around for a guy who isn't being straight with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): How old are you two?? You sound quite young. Young lads are a very strange breed. They blow hot and cold. You know where you are with them one minute and the next they gone! Literallty!and Virtually! The best thing for you to do now is to play it cool. DO NOT run after him at all costs!! You will regret it. They will think you are desperate and you don't want him to think that. Just sit back and wait for him to come to you. If he doesn't then there are plenty more lads out there. Enjoy life
Take care
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