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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 25 and was dating this guy since 2.5 years, we already had had a break up after a year of our relationship and we were not in contact for 5 months but again he came back to me and apologized and wanted to be with me as much as i had never moved on ....we were back together. The second time it was a lil difficult for me to believe him and he made sure that i knew he loved me ....he made me feel special again. N i just made him promise me one thing that he wud never lie to me ....be it whatever ....i shall understand ...but be honest ...n he did that for wht i knw ....but on new years eve ....he lied to me about a friends accident and didnt answer my call till next day afternoon and then he said all the possible lies about how serious the friends condition was .....but accidently his phone had got answered previous night and i heard music and him tlkng to his friends ....when i cross questioned he said ...i did go to a friends plc who stayed close by to hospital for dinner ...i didnt believe him and gfought and asked him not to talk to me ever ....he actually didnt ever call me back ....after taht day ....i dont understand what to do ....it seems he doesnt care for me n my friends say screw him and move on ...and he has as it is never committed to me that he wud marry me .....and as per Indian standards ...i shud b prepared to get married now ...i dnt knw wht to do ....he ws the closest person to me ....we both shared nethg n everythg wit each other .....pls suggest .....shud i really forget n nt bother abt him ..... Or go ahead and call him and try to speak myself ....as he has not spoken to me since 15 days which is very unlikely of us .....we never hang on to a fight more than a few hours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2013): You told him never to talk to you again, you did that because you were hurt and angry with him, but deep down you also know he's NOT the right guy for you.
He didn't beg you for a 3rd chance which suggests to me he's not really bothered about you. If I was you, I'd be glad he didn't/isn't beg/begging you for a 3rd chance, because I think you would be with him again, but in my view he will NEVER have the respect for you that he should for his girlfriend.
Forget about the guy and move on I say.
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reader, xxxnattybumxxx  +, writes (15 January 2013):
Whether its the way of the muslim or not, no woman deserves to be treated like the dirt on someones shoe. He's not a good man. He's lying to you and thats the worst because if he can lie, he can cheat. I think you shouldn't bother contacting him because he obviously doesn't care about you enough to make the first move. I'd say wait to see if he comes back..if he does..he's got a lot to change..if he doesnt..ah well..listen to your friends..plenty more guys out there who would treat you good!
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (15 January 2013):
As he has never committed to you by asking you to marry him and he continues to tell you lies and take you for granted.I think you should forget him and move on with your life. There is no point in wasting anymore time with him.As you say by Indian standards you should be preparing to get married now.Find someone who will both respect and love you. Best Luck.Nora B.
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