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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey I want to know if I should do this. Ok so I had enough of my exbfs bs so I breoke it off and starting going out with other guys. Anyways I gave him another chance and he knows if he mess up this time it's never another chance for him. Well anyways I just found out he lied to me about where he lives. He's had me believing he lives out of state with his father for the past two months but he living in our same state but like only one mile from where he use to live. He doesn't know I just found out so what I wanna know is should I show up where he lives but I want to do it in a way that makes him flip his wig in shock. I just don't wanna knock at his door. Then I'm going to dump his lying no good ass forever. He's such a dumbass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): i agree, you dont have to drive there in order to let him know that you know. be realistic, just dump him.going there is just going to give him a chance to lie more to fix things.. you know how liars work!
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (26 December 2010):
 I agree with the other two Uncles & Aunties - jsut jump his lying ass and be done with him. He's not with the gas-money to even drive over there.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 December 2010):
Just dump him. Don't go and do a bunny boiler thing on him, because if you turn up out of nowhere and suddenly dump him, it might get around the you're insecure, or nuts or something. Don't give him the ammunition to be able to blame you. Call him, tell him you know he's been lying and then end contact.
Remember, you might be able to shock him, but it could come back and bite you. I'd suggest just dumping him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): Why wasted your time and gas driving over. Text him and then go no contact.
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