A
female
age
36-40,
*ess_Ka
writes:I have been seein my boyfriend for 6 months and have had a very healthy sex life until recently when i found out he was lying about going to strip clubs and masturbating to porn regularly. Now i feel disgusted and sick to my stomach when he tries to be intimate with me and I cant allow myself to get close to him. Please help me to get over these issues!
View related questions:
porn, sex life Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, love-him  +, writes (6 March 2008):
 HEY!!
Well hon, i honestly think your boyfriend needs to start telling you the truth, instead of you finding out him lying. You need to think about your future, if you tell him to stop going to the clubs and he says he will but doesnt, then is the time to maybe say that was your last chance..
GOOD LUCK! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
A
male
reader, DoubleM  +, writes (6 March 2008):
 At your age, this mate is probably not going to matter much longer. You are very young, so please know that it will easily be put behind you as a learning experience. You are still just beginning to experience life, and this particular man is demonstrating a preference for fantasy sex, rather than intimacy with a real woman. Some of this activity is acceptable, perhaps, but if his interest in having personal warmth with you begins to subside, then I think you may be in a troublesome relationship.
...............................
A
female
reader, hello1 +, writes (6 March 2008):
 It's not your issue it his, I can understand you being turned off. I believe going to strip clubs when your a couple is a big no. If I was you I tell him to stop going to the strip clubs and if he didn't, that properly be the end of the relationship. The porn not really a big problem, though I guess he can cut down if it's making you really upset, I mean not all men watch it. Most do though!
...............................
|
