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writes:I seriously feel like my life could be the next headline for the Jerry Springer Show. Seriously. My high school sweetheart, the father of my child left me about 10 months ago for a meth addict who is about 10 to 15 years OLDER than him. She had 2 kids from previous relationships and they both got taken away from her...and word around town is that she`s pregnant again by my ex and is doing more drugs than ever. We were together for about 6 years and now he`s denying his 1 year old daughter, doing drugs, and completely ignoring his family. I understand that everyone makes their own choices in life but in this case I don`t by it one bit. I honestly think that the girl that he`s with is filling his head with a bunch of non sense and making him believe that his daughter isn`t his and a bunch of other stuff that is much more complicated than the stuff I already told you. What`s even sadder is that I`m still in love with him and apart of me wants him back and I don`t know why because he hurt me so bad. What should I do???
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reader, elsie  +, writes (8 June 2007):
 how very sad to be in this sort of situation.all round it seems that you were with a very very weak man.these sort of people have addictive personalities and latch to anything new and novel sometimes looking for a new drama and a new buzz because deep down they hate theirselves.he must have already had problems and have been weakminded to have been so susceptable to this other woman?the novelty will wear off no doubt and he will probably be banging on your door one day soon.what you have to ask yourself is to you want this washed up drug addict back in your and your childs life?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2007):
 Why on earth would you want that druggie back? Now is the time for you to move on to greener pastures with your lovely little girl. You have a bright future and can give both your daughter and yourself a wonderful life. Don't look back. Good luck and keep us posted.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 hi
i think u need to make peace with the fact that this guy no matter how much you love him he is just not worth it. give it up and move one with your life, take care of your child and ignore this guy, the truth is whether you believe it or not he had made his choices and its either you learn to forget or you allow his awful behaviour ruin your life. believe me this is good riddens no-one can fill someone with so much rubbish as you say. so let him go and open your heart to other opportunities out there. good luck
Jovial
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