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writes:I'm in my mid 20s now and a few years ago I realized I wasn't completely straight and began to fancy guys. A few months ago I signed up on a dating site and identified myself as bi. I still don't feel totally ok with this, and for the past few weeks I've been talking online with a guy a couple years younger than me. We can talk for hours and hours about anything and everything. Even though he seems to have a really good heart, he is really feisty sexually and told me everything he wants us to do. A part of me wants to pursue him further but another part of me just wants to walk away. What should I do? I should add that I am a virgin (which he knows) and play for keeps. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): first, congrats on bein honest with urself about ur sexuality. But alot of guys just want sex and will say anything to u to make u ave sex with them, and u being a virgin will make him want u more. (I dont no y this is) Let him no again u r a virgin and u want to wait till u are in a proper relationship b4 u have sex, but if u feel he is still pushing for sex thn let it go. Good luck. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): No one can tell you what to do - i think if you are torn with the idea then perhaps it is worth meeting up in person to see how you feel. In a public place with no temptations to do anything you are not comfortable with or sure of. Just perhaps go for a coffee and see whether you would like to pursue this or not. Personally i think a person is more important than their gender, love is love at the end of the day. Just take it slow and be wary of folk you meet online, some weirdos out there sadly :/
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