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writes:I'm a middle aged woman in love with another middle aged woman. She is married but has told me she loves her husband but is not in love with him. I told her that my feelings went deeper for her than just friendship and although she denied feeling the same way her actions and words seem to say she feels the same for me as well. We are seperated by many States and we do take vacations with each other about every 2 years. This year she came to my house and spent a week vacation with me. She was very attentive to me and touched me alot and held long eye contact with me at times. I asked her when the last time was she woke up and said WOW What a Wonderful day?? She said:"The last time I woke up happy was in Wi w/ you having fun! FREE! Away from Florida! So there. I felt very free and had lots of fun" I'm convinced her feelings for me go much deeper than friendship. My question is that for over 3 years I have continued to have these very strong feelings for her and now I find I am having trouble sleeping and concentrating, she is always on my mind. How do I get her off my mind without losing the friendship we have. And how do I explain to her that this is what I am going through without her feeling like maybe we should put some space between us. My greatest fear would be that of her leaving my life.Any help would be appreciated.Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): Why is she staying with her husband? Waiting for a 1 in a million+ even to happen is BS... it's like saying, I'll move in with you if my husband is hit by a piece of space junk...
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reader, kelsi +, writes (13 December 2009):
kelsi is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNO--there is a lot more. I just didn't feel the need to write it all down. But I can if that is what you are looking for. She told me she wanted to win the lottery so that "both our lives will change". She also told me if she was younger she would leave her husbands ass in a heart beat and move up here by me. She also asked me what I would do if I won the lottery and I said I would build a log house on a lake but that I wouldn't want to live in it alone and that she was welcomed to join me if she wanted. She wrote me back and said "you don't even have to ask, of course I do". Those are just a few of the many, many things she has said to me. Does that help?
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