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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Well i have been going out with this boy for about two months, we knew each other before that though. He came to new york on vacation and it was great, although there were few things i dint like - i got over it. once during sex he told me that he loved me and that he is totally committed to me. now he is back in his own country and we hardly talk, and he does not show as much affection as before, although he does get busy and he does tell me that he will always love me. i had this dream that he was cheating and its been bugging me for a while now. what should i do? is he cheating? or am i too fussy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): I don't think you should spend to much time wasting energy on this guy; I think "cupidguy" is right; this guy wanted to have sex with you;
I suggest you MOVE ON; yes, I know it sounds harsh and yes I know it will be difficult, because you gave more emotions and have hoped for more; BUT I do believe you will meet somebody good and decent that will value and appreciate you; I suggest you get out there and meet the right guy; don't waste any more time on this long distance guy; consider it a fling or anexperience; you deserve better.
Wishing you lots of love and happiness.
Best wishes and SMILES
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