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writes:Me and my x dated for 2 1/2 years we were friends years before and were 21 and 22 not really partiers, during that time i use to get in alot of trouble with friends and lost my job he also lost about 80lbs. He said we were going downhill when i lost my job and we werent on the same page, i got scared of him hurting me and ran off alittle and for those couple of months he was trying to make things work and i kept pushing him off, i guess he got aggravated and gave up tried talking to another girl and in mean time i tried fighting for him for the past 6 months, all i get from him is i donot know, i feel like its gnna go back to shit again and he hides me from his friends trys talking to girls through text or on dating sites and keeps me on the side, what should i do walk away or give it time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): I know a girl who tried ALL the time to get back with her ex, but he always lead her on, acting like he still liked her but also like he was embarassed about showing that he knew her when he was around his friends. She heard that he would talk badly about her behind her back, so he didn't know how to show any good feelings around her while trying to impress his friends when they were around. She finally, after trying to win him back for a couple of years, went on to be with another guy, who treats her really well and makes her really happy in life. I don't know if that's why this guy was treating you that way, but it might be.. Either way, if he's not showing any effort in return, I would try leaving him in the past as best you can. Don't let him lead you on any further.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 April 2010):
Yes walk away. You're right, he is just keeping you on the side for when he wants you. Walk away and find a guy who will treat you better than this.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Walk away. He doesn't sound like he's given you any signs that he cares about you.
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