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writes:So, basically, i'm young and stupid and daft as people call the younger generation today. But, i have been troubled by a situation i have been placed in and was wondering if anyone could give me some advice.There is this boy at school and he is the same age as me. Usually we talk all the time. but, recently he has been getting a lot of girlfriends and they break up all of a sudden. but, he's in a relationship now with another girl from a different school. i don't like her and haven't since i met her 2-3 years ago. The other day we was talking on facebook and he told me that he liked me in some sort of manner but he knew i understood what he meant. so i came back with so want me but you can't have because you have someone else. and he agreed. he keeps leading me on then breaking me off with other girls. i asked this girl that has known me and him for a long time and she told me to confront him and tell him to stop messing me around and don't take me for a twat. but i don't know if i should becasue that could lead to us never talking again. but, he means something to me, i love him and i have done for the past 3 years and i don't know what to say. can someone just give me some advice and tell me what i can possible do without coming across as jealous and extreamly annoyed at him. i don't want to hurt him the same way he hurt me, but i want to beat him up... Any advice will be taken to mind. Thank you all
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reader, shay loving u carelessly  +, writes (11 June 2014):
 Break him off. Lose all contact with him for at least a month and show him you mean business don't show him that he is getting to you pretend you don't care like he does
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reader, petina1 +, writes (10 June 2014):
 Unfortunately for you it's the age. He is a popular boy and he knows it. By having a constant stream of girlfriends he obviously isn't ready for anyone in particular. It's quite normal but you're feelings are been shattered by it. I can only suggest you add him as a friend and stay in the background until you get to know what he is really like. Friends initially last longer than girlfriends. Trust me. Good luck
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reader, petina1 +, writes (10 June 2014):
Unfortunately for you it's the age. He is a popular boy and he knows it. By having a constant stream of girlfriends he obviously isn't ready for anyone in particular. It's quite normal but you're feelings are been shattered by it. I can only suggest you add him as a friend and stay in the background until you get to know what he is really like. Friends initially last longer than girlfriends. Trust me. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2014): I feel that you need to stop bringing yourself down and treating yourself as an important person. I noticed how you used some unhelpful labels for yourself at the start of the question. What's wrong with being jelouse and extremely annoyed? Those are your authentic emotions aren't they so why not embrace how you truly feel inside to yourself. If you can acknowledge your feelings in this situation you will be better guided to make decisions from a higher esteemed place.I feel that when we take actions that aren't coming from a place that has our best interest at heart then it will have an affect on your self confidence. So what's it going to be? Are you going to treat yourself as an important person where you are your own top priority, or are you going to sacrfice yourself and take a hit to your self confidence because this boy isn't treating you how you wish to be treated. Follow your authentic path...
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