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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 wow ok i agree with all the other posters here.
this guy is probably crazy about you but morally and legally he dosnt feel sex with you is a good idea at this time.
theres no big rush to have sex you have plenty of time you should stick by your guy and when hes ready and your ready it will happen.
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reader, Love is all you need  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 he probably does love you if he just wants to cuddle you and spent time with you....it means hes not just into you for sex. You should just go with the cuddling and kissing until your older cause he probably just doesn't want to go to jail for havin sex with you and cause he's sticking around it means he does love you.hope this helps....xxx
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reader, Crazy4BaggiePantsJr +, writes (30 July 2009):
I TOTALY agree with Emilysanswers, u are what is called 'jail bait' to him where i come from. He seems to have feelings for u as a person but is not willing to go to jail because he had sex with u. if u really care about him u will understand this...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): What on earth!? This is the perfect situation for someone your age, you are very lucky. Why on earth would you want any more than this? If you do, go find someone else, this guy seems far too genuine and caring to meet your 'needs'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): Don't try to get ahead of yourself. People your age tend to do things they're not prepared to and later regret it.It seems that guy is being mature and reasonable. This doesn't mean you don't stand a chance with him. You just have to be patient... why not spend a couple of years getting to know him better and then maybe you two can start dating? The best relationships are the ones that take longer to build.
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reader, Elin_785 +, writes (28 July 2009):
Hello!This guy clearly cares about you. Maybe not no the way that you whant him to, but by refusing sex with you he shows that he is mature. If you guys still knowing each other in two year, go ahead. But for the time being focus on being friends. Best of luck.Elin
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reader, sweetestgirl  +, writes (28 July 2009):
Him not wanting sex , means that the realationship is based on more than that. Cuddleing can be good, it gives you both time to be close, and know more about one another. He might not want to go too far becuase of the age difference and it may seem like he's taking advanage of you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 July 2009):
Yes, it means he has made it clear he is not going to risk:
a) a beating from your dad / big brothers
b) underage pregnancy
c) a criminal record
d) being labelled a paedophile
e) getting on the sex offenders register.
So just be his friend and get to know him as a mate and a new big brother type.
They are always great to have.
Good Luck!! xx
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