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writes:I met this guy at work nice lookin seen before in the past where i work but really never spoke to one another, till we where ask to work at a different location for reconstruction of our kitchen at first he would just say good morning and gave him what he had to pick. And that was it but after we starting talking, i confessed to him he was growing on me and he said he liked me to,but he has just gooten out of a seven year relationship and has asks me if i could wait for him. The thing know is that we are out for the8 summer so we dont see each other but we talk or text occasionally. What should I do? I care for him but dont know what do
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 June 2012):
I personally think that he's done the right thing in not starting a relationship with you straight away. What you don't want is to become a rebound to him. By asking you to wait rather than taking it further at this stage, he has perhaps saved you some heartbreak further along the line.
The question really, is do you want to wait and how long do you want to wait for?
I would say that you can afford to give this man some time, a few months, just to see whether at the very least he's willing to start dating you. But I wouldn't wait around for too long, as you don't want to miss out elsewhere.
You can afford to give him some time, and maybe try to contact him just a little more.
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