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anonymous
writes:i have been going out with my boyfriend for the last two years and we are getting on great. but i have recently discovered that he is texting his old girlfried on and off. they went out for four years and had a bad break up (she cheated on him), they were broken up two years before i met him. i know she is engaged to be married but i'm worried he might till have feelings for her....
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reader, DV1  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 If it helps... I'm not attracted to my ex girlfriend anymore, but I've been thinking about her a lot lately. He may be in the same train of thought that I'm in. Right now, I'm just wondering how she's doing, and trying to establish a friendship instead of holding bad feelings towards her. Don't read too much into it. If he's attempting to make peace with her, that will get rid of something negative in his life. That will help him be more positive, and will improve upon your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your reply it was helpfull. he does not hide his fone from me, so i feel a bit better. it's just that when i read the message he said he was thinking about her a lot and this kinda hurt me as he had texted me half an hour earlier to say goodnite. and here i was thinking that i was the last person he thought of before he went to sleep?!
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reader, DV1 +, writes (23 May 2007):
It's not unnatural for people to be in communication with their exes. He may be trying to establish a friendship, so that he can have closure, and so that she can go into her marraige not feeling negative about her past. Unless he's hiding his phone, or showing signs of hiding something, don't be worried at all.
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