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writes: I like this guy, he's sweet, courteous and likes me too. well i think he does. he told me i was beautiful, and when we were talking about fun i said i didnt have much of it, he said well u need a boyfriend, i said im looking. would that have went right over his head or would he have taken that as im interested in him? we just met and dont know much about eachother. he has my number and hasnt used it. we're in a business deal, so is he just keeping it professional for now or is he interested? oh he said i was beautiful and really nice person etc.. before we had a business deal. should i wait till the deal is done and see where it goes from there?Oh by the way I LOVE THIS WEBSITE!!! very helpful. thank u everyone. Reply to this Question
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
 dear reader i think its safe to say he does like you but there's all that don't mix business and pleasure thing i think you should wait and see what happens keep droping hints that you like him too and would like to get to know him better i'm sure some good will come of it
good luck all the best keep me posted xxx
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (12 June 2006):
 probably but he is probably been polite and behaving like a gentleman
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 June 2006):
 Possibly he's interested. I know me being a guy, I love women and I love to see a woman smile and feel good about herself. I would compliment her and make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world. This is not always because I want to date her but just because I do think she is beautiful and I do enjoy her company. In this case though I think he does like you but doesn't want to come on to strong. Ask him out for cofee or lunch would be even better because its still professional and you can also get to know each other on a more personal level. Just test the waters and see what happens. Its not always bad for a woman to make the first move just not to strong that can scare a man away out of intimidation. Good Luck.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (12 June 2006):
 I would definately say he likes you.. Sounds like a good idea to wait till the deal is done and then maybe slyly ask him out. hes made the right noises in your direction and your already keen, so maybe that was his aim, to get you interested, but isnt sure if you are! Just be careful that its not to do with the deal all this compliments and hes trying to butter you up! There are a few like that out there, all the pander to get what they want, but it does sound like he likes you. See what happens when the deal ends and see if you can take it further, mention going out for a drink and see how he is with you.
Good luck
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (12 June 2006):
sounds like he likes you to me. a lot of guys (myself being one of the foremost culpits) would miss a come on signal from 1 foot away..in fact unless you approach with a sandwitch board and scream into my ear thru a tannoy the chances are I wont know if youre interested!! 8-(Perhaps suggest that when you get the deal closed that you both celebrate over dinner and drinks? maybe put it like: "where should we go for dinner to celebrate the deal?" - I think even I would pick up on that one... away from the office things should be different and you can start to get to know each other - after all he has told you that youre beautiful and a nice person - thats as good a start as you can get right! The best of luck!! Doc T
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reader, bonym +, writes (12 June 2006):
 My dear friend, I think this guy likes you as I am speaking from experience. Telling you that you are beautiful is surely a great start!!! I think you are good at giving yourself advice, should i wait till the deal is done and see where it goes from there? Well I have to agree, give it a bit of time and see how things pan out, but it does seem to me that he is interested, and like with me, it does seem he is playing a little hard to get. But remember, dont play about, I mean if he is giving you some obvious signs that he likes you and you like him, if you are comfortable with him then you could start seeing each other. In my case, he was playing mind games, so I left him to it and moved on, its his loss. I hope it goes well for you. xXx
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