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writes:There's this guy I like who's a friend of a friend, but he's too attractive. We get on really well and make each other laugh, but he is really really good-looking and although a fair few guys tell me I'm attractive, this guy is SO attractive that being in his presence makes me feel like a total troll. If it were any other guy I'd be pretty certain... when we look at each other he holds my gaze for YEARS, it's like he's looking into my brain... once I fell over and he pulled me up even though I'm perfectly capable... he scrunches my back occasionally when he goes past... and shows off like mad the second I walk into the room... but he can't possibly be attracted to me! He's beautiful, man!Plus he's 20 and I'm 18... and another thing... I'm sort-of dating his cousin! Oh nooo... it sounds even worse now I've written it down...Help... I'm all gooey-eyed about him... xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): At times guys are attracted to what they cannot have.For example,brothers who have had sibling rivalry all their life might feel attracted to the girl the other brother is dating.
I suggest that you talk it over with the cousin you are "sort of" dating right now.
you shouldn't be like the lion that lost the hare in its hands when it tried to run after the deer that was a better pray.It ended up hungry at the end of the day.
All the Best Dear.
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reader, babyminow  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 first things first you need to figure out how you feel about his cousin. if you dont have any feelings for him, you should get out of the relationship. its only fair to the both of you. second you should just ask this guy how he feels about you. im sure with the way you explain how he act that he feels the same way. good luck
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (28 November 2008):
Well, I am quite certain this guy isn't walking around going "hey look at me I'm just SO beautiful, bow and worship me for the great GREEK GOD I am..." Even though you might think so.
You have a crush honey. We ALL feel this way about our crushes -- that they are so beautiful and perfect, and we can't possibly measure up. Just breathe and remember he is as human as you are, and i bet he even has a few insecurities of his own.
Sort of dating his cousin... hmmm... if you are really into this guy you might want to cool off on that one. Good luck! :-)
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