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writes: My ex boyfriend used to have siezures in his sleep, very frightening if you're lying next to him and he stops breathing and he wont wake up however much you shake him. We broke up but were still on great terms for about 6 weeks. For 5 of those weeks he was single, then he got a new girlfriend. She convinced him to go to the doctors about it and they put him on drugs to stablise his brain while he's sleeping (or something), and I asked him to keep me posted on what happens. We lost touch over the next 2 weeks or so because of his girlfriend (i think she saw me as a threat), but they've broken up now. He got back in touch, and I was talking to him online and it occured to me that he never told me the outcome of the siezure thing. When I asked him he said 'I don't want to talk about it. All you need to know is I don't have then anymore.'Why did he say this? He said he'd keep me posted because he knows how concerned I was about this problem, I used to not let him sleep because I was scared he wouldn't wake up again, and one time I was just crying uncontrollably into his shoulder for ages because I thought he had died in my arms. I'm really hurt and I don't know why. I can't think of anything that would make him not want to tell me, I know all about his past and things that may have been the cause (i.e. drug abuse/ past traumas) so he wouldn't have been trying to hide that from me. He's the type of person who will tell anyone anything, so what's going on?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (19 November 2006):
 it might just be that because he is on medication now and it is under control he feels he can leave it in the past and just get on with his life i understand that must be hard for you but you obviously get on well at the moment so i would say keep the relationship you have with him and dont put any pressure on he might open up one day in his own time.
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