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anonymous
writes:My partner has taken his ex wife and children on holiday this week. He went on Monday and is due back tomorrow. We don't live together officially but have been seeing each other for about 18 months and I love him and he says he loves me. He stops at mine when he hasnt got his children. He is a wonderful father and I trust that he has gone for the sake of his children. I said before he went that I wouldnt contact him whilst he was away so he could concentrate on the children. He text me on the morning he went on holiday and said that he appreciated that and that he would still text me anyway to make sure I was ok... at the end of the text he put Love you x. Its now Friday and I havent heard anything from him? I havent text him like I said I wouldnt but my mind is all over the place and I am so upset that he hasnt even sent me a "R u ok?" text... I keep checking my phone, picking it up and putting it down.Not sure what to do as I am really quite angry but not sure how to tackle it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): This is so wrong. Of course he isnt going to text you is. Thats because his mind is on his ex and his kids ie his family. You are the other woman here. Leave now while the holiday is fresh in your mind.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): I agree here with everybody,
No texting for one week, is all right
Going with ex wife for holiday, it is beyond limits
Somehow, it is not the right thing, unless, you have a special agreement.
Take care.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 May 2011):
 Since he is due back tomorrow, I would restrain myself from texting. However.... I wouldn't be cool with him going on a weeks vacation with his ex and the kids.. The kids.. sure.. the ex? hell no. But maybe that is just me :)
I would be upset that he didn't call or texted even once. That just seems like "out of mind out of sight". The fact that he TOLD you he would check in, yet didn't seems very.. off to me. Unless.. he lost/broke his phone. I see no other excuse that I would/could accept.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): If he has gone for the sake of the children why didn't he just bring the kids? What is the reason for bringing the ex-wife? They are not married anymore I see no purpose in him taking her, I would be upset.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): I think you are a bit naive. Sorry but I have been there and my ex did txt every single day just to say I love you. If he did this for his kids sake he would have taken them without her. Excuses like that are just unacceptable. Open your eyes before you get hurt.
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (13 May 2011):
Just from a guy's perspective here, it is VERY suspicious that he would go on holiday with his ex-wife. I know there are children involved but still, that is beyond my limits. I did the "player" thing one time in my life and this sounds like something I did during that time. Not trying to upset you, just trying to be real here. I think you need to have a serious heart to heart with him when he comes home then have a serious heart to heart with yourself. I think you will come to the right conclusion.
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