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He is giving me a lot of mixed signals and confusing me. How do I unravel my feelings?

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Question - (5 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2009)
A female Canada age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay so I am in highschool and there's his guy I really took a liking to..So I kept admiring him from a distance. There were a few times we talked but it wasnt really a conversation. So after a while he started giving me signals that he does like me back such as, Looking at me when I looked at him, for vise-versa. Figiting, Getting all shy when im near (and he isnt a shy person.)

Kay so now he does do that and he is always chatting and smiling with this girl infront of my face (In class _) and walks with her and talks. He seems like he likes her.. but I dont see him with her after that class. I sit next to him in one class and he didnt say anything! Im so confused.

At the end of that day, I took the bus and he was on it. I was talking with my friends and he was doing the same but he looked at me alot of times!

I wanna make him know I like him but.. he is popular and has alot of friends. He is the oposite of me in a way..and he has similar interests as me.

I have slight interest in another guy who is so much nicer and knows I exist but I cant stop liking this guy!

Im so mixed up. Help?

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A male reader, Roboaxe United States +, writes (6 September 2009):

Roboaxe agony auntGo for the gold.

If you really really like this guy, then just try to chat him up. If he continues to just "look at you" and talk to other women, then just move on to the other guy because this guy is not interested.

Good luck!

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2009):

Duckyhelp agony auntHey, u could work on the sly next time you talk to him, ask for his msn addy, then you guys can chat there and get to know each other. Do jokey flirting over msn, greeting him with hey hottie or sexy, watever. Then the more you guys chat, the more comfortable you guys will feel with each other. Then slyly ask him who he fancies.

If its you, great! :D

If its another name but he asks you who you fancy, be truthful, not in a big OMG I REALLY LIKE YOU kind of way but a "i have a slight soft spot for you" kind of way. And not making a big deal of it.

Hope this goes well for you, and don't rush asking him who he fancies, that is if you take my advice.

But yeah, hope everything goes well :) x

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