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writes:About a month ago, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me four times. Three of the times were just kissing, one time was more (it involved taking clothes off), all with the same girl. Two days before I found out he told me he loved me. We had been going out for about 4 months. Ever since he has told me every day he loves me and regrets it. He has stopped talking to the girl he cheated on me with and has said he will do anything to have me back. The other day he brought me flowers and a card and gave them to me at school.There's still alot of leftover feelings between us. I love him, but I just don't know if I should take him back..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): Please, do not go back with this guy. He is a real jerk and a liar, you will end up getting nothing from him.
There are plenty of other guys in this world. He isn't the only one, though it may seem that way right now because you are so young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also forgot to add that the day after he told me he loved me he called the girl he'd been seeing and told her that he was ending it because he loved me. But he told me he loved me before he ended it.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (5 September 2009):
 Young Lady,This guy has given you a snapshot into what kind of long term boyfriend he will be. He is not worth your time or your effort.You are so young. Please take this opportunity to thank him for showing you what an idiot he is. and believe me there are plenty of people who do not cheat on their mates.Sorry this happened to you, but he did you a favor. Move on and don't you give this numbnuts another thought. He will do it to the next girl he dates...and the next one...and the next one.
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reader, wherestheinstructions?  +, writes (5 September 2009):
NO NO NO NO !!!
A leopard doesn't change it's spots - he's done it FOUR times (that you are aware of), so he WILL do it again.
Forget him - you deserve better, and he deserves contempt.
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