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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfrend wanted to take a flight back to his hometown to meet up a group of ex collegues who were flying in from another country for work, in particular a girl he used to have strong feelings for when they were working together. they actually dated for a while, but she dumped him. he was hurt by this woman. He did not tell me about meeting up with this group, however explained that he was going to meet up with his family. He finally told me about it the morning before the flite. Curious and a little upset, i asked him what was going on, and asked him whether it had to do with the email i saw him read from that girl the nite before.i checked his emails and found out that he had corresponded with this girl several times and the girl had informed him of this trip, which was postponed twice (and all the times he bought a new ticket to coincide with the new arrival date), meaning that he purchased 3 return tickets, of all he didnt use because that group postponed their trip. he hid all her emails and all the coincided purchased tickets from me.i later found out that he promised this girl before that he wanted to take her around town and show her his hometown. i didnt let him go and threatened to breakup if he went. he didnt. we had a big argument and we've been fighting all week long. i decided to forgive him. he promised to never hide anything like this from me again. he said he only hid it from me cos he wanted to meet all his ex collegues and not just her alone and was afraid id get jealous and not let him go. so he has since cut all contacts with her and said friendship with her isnt worth us breaking up.should i trust him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): trust him.. give last chance to be trusted if he broke that trust.. then i think leaving would be the best solution. it sucks to love a person so much and have to let them go but at same time you don't wanna have a person your with but he has feelings for some1 else.. good luck
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