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writes:Hey, I really really need some help!My boyfriend has just suddenly stopped replying to my text messages and been a lot more distant when were apart in the last few weeks! When we're together we get on really well and have a lovely time together! We've recently started our a levels (im english) and have been dating for about 5 months (we're 16). He tells me he loves me all the time and we really close. Hes a lovely, kind, caring guy; but recently hes seemed more moody, less patient and generally a lot quieter sometimes when were together and often when we're apart for example texting or on msn. I really love him and would hate him to be loosing interest in me! He seems like hes still keen - with telling me he loves me and once recently that he was obsessed with me! But i am really confused with by his behaviour when we're apart! Some evenings i cant stop myself from continuous texting if he hasnt replied to one of my messages, i know this must get so annoying. I know this is a small trouble, but its really distressing me and i cant stop worrying about it! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): It is not small trouble is it is bothering you constantly.
Allow him some breathing space specially he does not reply straight away. You do not want to push him away.
Enjoy the relationshipe a day at a time and be cool with it.
If he does not text you one night, do not resend!
Give him time and then when you next see him, talk to him and let him know what it is bothering you.
He may not realize it is that important to you, but also remember that he may need his space aswell.
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