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writes: Major Agony ??I met a wonderful boy 2 months ago and we hit it off very well. We like sane things he is kind and hardworking. Good guy. We waited a few weeks before sleeping together but that hasn't changed him or us he's still great The problem is he's Australian and here only until March with the visa. I thought at first maybe fed change his mind but I can't keep thinking it. We have both cried over the impending separation. The problem is he wants good work opps and they aren't hereI would never leave America. So do we quit now or do I spend another month? I'm torn up. Also I am wanting a family. I worry this will keep me from another opportunity for that Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Midnight Shadow +, writes (27 January 2015):
Some may say enjoy it while it lasts, heck; even I would sometimes, but I think it would just make it hurt more (in this situation) when he leaves. I'd suggest accepting is as a nice "fling" and letting go. To be fair, you still barely know each other - so it's better to begin moving on now, than wait until after he leaves.
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