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writes:On Monday 12th Feb i planed for my new girlfriend to come to my house for the first time to meet my family and see where i live.On Tuesday 13th Feb She told she had some bad news she told her lil sister had 2 have an heart operation and she couldn't see me at all v-day. and later that night admit shes was nervous about meting my family i told her not to worry. she seemed ok after that.I asked her what she was gonna do v-day she told she she going to the hosipital and then goto her moms and stay there all night.On Wenesday 14th Feb i got on msn to see my girlfriend i asked her if she was ok and stuff. she told me she been 2 the hospital and she went home. and then told me she may goto a party with her bro and mates. and then she told her mate had turned up. which she told me she doesn't get on well with.i told her i was going to play bowling with my brother and girlfriend and his mate and my lil sister its down the road from where she lives i asked her 2 come and watch me make a fool out of myself. she told she couldn't because her ex boyfriend was being sent away for beating her. and she was waiting for the police to make statements.do u think she didn't wanna spend v-day because she didn't wanna cum to my house?do u think she didn't wanna spend v-day because she was scaried 2 meet my family?any help would be greati'm 24 shes 16 where both not virgins.we've been together 1 week and halfand i think things r moveing very slowlywe both said we love each over. and we both kissed and held hands. but thats it?do u think after 1 week and half thats good or bad?with my ex after 3 days of us being 2gehter we was doing some sexual and after 2 weeks we was haveing sex. and i was a virgin. my ex was 20. so do u think things r moveing slowly? my new girlfriend and me have seen each over 4 times since being 2gehter . hopeing to chance things by asked her 2 stay at my house no sex or dirty play just to see what its like 2 spend a night 2gether.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): Whoa! You have known her one and a half weeks, and you think things are moving very slowly?Man, you shouldn't be expecting her to have sex with you until you've been seeing one another at least for a month!! Unless, of course, your main reason for dating her in the first place is simply to have sex.She was told her younger sister needed heart surgery; she had to stay close to home to make statements to the police about her ex-boyfriend beating her; you want her to meet your parents (normally that's very commendable, but a trifle stressful for her when she barely knows you, don't you think?); and she had a friend show up who she doesn't get along well with.This girl is ONLY SIXTEEN and she is dealing with a lot of heavy and stressful issues; not least of which is wondering what you real motive is for seeing her.If you really like her then ease up on yourself and her, and be supportive of what she's going through. Don't be pressuring her to sleep with you at this very early stage!
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