A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: i really like this guy but he is a virgin. i am not i am a mother. i try to get to know him or get him to go out on dates which he did one but now he is quiet what should i do he likes me and do like him. how do i assist in making it happen.
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reader, Polysemant +, writes (4 November 2010):
You will have to take the lead, but that doesn't mean jumping him right away. This means you will have to do all the asking out and be patient. A shy person takes time to get to know and they take time to get comfortable with someone as well. There is also another possible outcome. If he repeatedly hesitates when you ask him out or doesn't take to you after more than a few dates, then it's possible he doesn't feel the same way as you and is too scared to tell you no.
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