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41-50,
*lairyfairy
writes:Ive met this lovely man after a very unhappy 3 yr being in a mental abuse relationship and didnt believe there could be any nice men out there! Ive been single a yr got my head sorted with counciling and finally ready to move on! And thats when this perfect man entered my life! Hes lovely just the type i go 4. But theres a problem thats turning me off. He has a hairy back. Which i really dont like! And its physically and sexually turning me off! He says he dont like it either and is going to wax it off. But hasnt so far and i dont know what to do. Hes got a really hairy body . Chest and legs too. Which isnt what i prefer but i can put up with it! I ve just never been with someone so hairy! Am i being shallow and unfair? I just want to feel sexually charged and im not around him at the moment! Honestly though he is my perfect match in everything else!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 December 2009):
 Bu him a gift card for one back waxing at the nearest Spa ( or place that will wax him) and book the appointment:)
I agree, I'm not a big fan of too much body hair on a man. Leg, arms, a few on the chest and crotch is OK - but facial, back hair and a full rug.. ^gag^ so not my style.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): What the hell is with people today.
A man is hairy. It is, and always has been this way.
Men look like tools if they get waxed. Women don't. Thats why a real man keeps his chest hair whilst a woman trims her pubic and under-arm hairs.
Flynn 24
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (10 December 2009):
I agree, bring it up once more and if he doesn't still, then Merry Christmas! You get him an appointment to get it done. As far as his legs being hairy...who cares? Men are supposed to have hairy legs. Men usually have a hairy chest too, but a little trim looks good; that wouldn't be painful at all.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 December 2009):
He did say he would wax it off for you. So I would suggest reminding him once more. If he doesn't' do it after that, then book him a session and take him there, telling him it's a present for him. It's more likely he's scared of being hurt.
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