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I am a 16 year old boy, strongly attracted to another 16 yo boy

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Question - (10 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *akeName writes:

Every Friday evening I go to a youth club with 2 of my friends (for arguments sake, they’re called Keiron and Tom), both male, like myself. Every Friday after the Youth club, me and my two friends muck about, playfighting for an hour or so. Recently, I've really started enjoying Keirons company, and i feel mad about him, like I just want to hold his hand or cuddle him for the whole night. I very subtly started acting on these feelings, I managed to get us to play this silly game where me and Keiron are attached twins, and we attached ourselves by putting our arms around each other.

Only a few nights before tonight, we dropped Tom off at his house, and started walking towards my house. I wanted desperately to hold his hand, so I bumped into it a few times. And we did end up holding hands the whole way back, then as we reached my house we started play fighting, like usual. After a while, Keiron suddenly stopped in front of me, then went to Kiss me, at least I thought he was, he was only joking around.

I really like Keiron, and I want to tell him. But I don’t know what to do. I don't know if he's gay, and I don't know if he would even be into me.

What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009):

i think you should tell him how you feel and let him know.... don't pursue something that might not have a future... it will just end up as a waste of time and a big heartbreak.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):

be careful mate, guys ur age can be a bit childish and still be biased about gay sexuality. U may want to mention it as a joke first! test the waters!! good luck though.x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009):

Well you could casually bring up the subject of homosexuality by talking about a gay celebrity or something. OR alternatively you could bring up the subject of girls. You could get him one night on his own and ask him why he leaned into kiss you. Theres a few suggestions- I hope these help. Good luck!

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