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writes:Hey everyone!My boyfriend has just gone to Zante have been with him for a year and a half. This is his first lads holiday and we have split up a day before he went! He was saying he wanted to spend time with me before he went and I moaned about seeing him for 3 hours so he then didn't want to see me the next day so I ended up going out with my mates. I was phoneing and phoneing hime the day he was going and didn't get any response at all. I am scared incase he goes with anyone while he's on holiday! Please help my minds doing over time:(
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reader, Demi12 +, writes (6 August 2012):
Demi12 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think it shouldn't be mu business if he went with somebody else because we split over something stupid. I really do regret moaning about seeing him for 3 hours I just don't know what to think as I'm not going to hear from him the whole time he's there! Thank you for your answer X
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): You say you split up, did you actually break up? If I am understanding your post that you did actually split up, meaning that the relationship ended, then I am afraid if he does go with anyone whilst he is on holiday he isn't cheating and it really is none of your business. Phoning him again and again wasn't the best way to handle this, I think it may be a case that he just needs time to enjoy his holiday and think things through. He made time to see you and you moaned about it, yet you knew that he was preparing to leave the next day so he did have things he needed to get done before leaving, then phoning him so much the day he left makes you seem very clingy. Whenever I am going away on holiday I have a million things to take care of before I leave, I will spend a couple of hours with my man, but I still have to make sure everything is set for my trip, and on the day I am leaving the last thing I can be doing is being on the phone all the time, so I tend to not answer the phone, because I have to get to the airport on time, have a plane to catch, luggage to check in, make sure there is nothing I have left behind that I need to have with me like tickets. At the moment you have been focusing on what you want and how your feeling, that's normal we all do it, but try to think about how your boyfriend is feeling. He has a wonderful holiday planned, he set aside 3 hours so he could spend with you, and all he got for his effort was you moaning that it was only 3 hours and then inundated with phone calls the day he was leaving. Just relax, I doubt he will go with anyone, he is having a holiday with his mates, your showing him you don't trust him to be away from you, and that must hurt him. Just relax and try to occupy yourself with other things that you enjoy doing, and before you know it he will be back and everything will be sorted, or he will be on the phone because he misses you. Good Luck.
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