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*odie_Babe
writes:Right, Me and my ex boyfriend J broke up due to his violent abuse and cheating on me.But the night after I broke up with J, I snogged another boy called T at a house party, I partly think it could have just been because I was hurting,But after that me and T started dating and I really got to love him, and he meant the world.So I took T home to meet my family, him and my family got along and me and T was very happy together - but one day out of the blue he rang me and ended it with me, because he 'hates' love because all it does is hurt you - obviously I was bewildered and hurt as I had not done anything to hurt him, but he said he just wasn't suiting love it wasn't me.Then I told him on New years eve I still loved him because I did and still do to this day,And he said we couldn't be anymore than friends.But he continues to flirt with me and is always going back and talking about the memorys we have shared together, I don't know if he does still love me or not, but I still want to be more than his friend, But I want to know from an outsiders point of view if you think he could still love me please...[I know I have asked this question, but I do want a few peoples answers, so I get a varied bunch of answers.]
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reader, Jays +, writes (25 January 2010):
ive kinda been in a similar situation with a boy and i no it suks :\ talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him for an honest answer of how he feels maybe he still likes you but is afraid of the feelings he has for you, so you can reassure him and try again or it could possibly be that he isint in love with you but still finds it hard to completely let you go if things dont work out then try your best too move on and be happy.keep yourself busy buy hangin out with friends and doing fun things (baking yummy food is great) best of luck :) xx
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