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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ive been on a date with this guy and we have kissed and stuff.He's been in touch and we text sometimes and he's a bit touchy feely when we meet in uni.Recently we have been messaging on Facebook and talked about the weekend. I said it would be nice to meet up at one point!He asked me around 5pm if I had any plans for the evening (Saturday). I said a little while later that I had nothing much planned and he didn't reply.He was online for a bit and ignored me!My mum (yes I asked her!) thinks that maybe it was too late in the day for him to ask me out and he's a decent guy and didn't want me to think he was just interested in my physically.I'm not sure. I'm very confused.He's been sending me signals that he's attracted to me and my friends can definitely feel something going on! Help!He hasn't contacted me since Saturday :( Has he lost interest in me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 Asking someone out at 5 pm on the same day indicates you were fill in... that it wasn't planned... mum is right.. usually if they ask early they really like you but asking at the last minute means they didn't give it much thought in my book
it's pretty early in the week...
my advice:
1. do not contact him this week
2. next time he asks you out for the same day or the next day even say "I'd LOVE to but I'm BUSY I wish you had asked EARLIER" then go be busy even if it's washing your hair....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2012): I would bide your time. It's early days. Just be friendly, make is clear you like him but wait for him to make a move. When you say you responded 'a little later' to his query as to what you were up to Saturday I wonder if you gave him the impression you weren't too bothered. It's a fine line. Still, all is not lost. And it was only Saturday, hardly a long time and if you move in the same circles you'll bump into him again.
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