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*pendy
writes:We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him sex then someone else is getting it from me and I told him that he's the only one for me.. he said I am lying.. I asked him if he has any proof that I'm cheating and he didn’t say anything, just said he knows and I know that am cheating.. but I am not cheating on him, I like him.. I've started falling for him.. he says I'm playing games with him.. it seem like he doesn’t care about me any more.. and always starts arguments... I TOLD HIM THAT IS HIM THAT I WANT and that am not cheating on him.. We made up.. I asked him if he still likes me and if he's still interested in me like when we first met.. he said yes.. and he told me to call him we reach home.. I called but he didn’t answer so I text him and it's been 2 WEEKS now he hasn’t called or texted me.. Not even on NEW YEARS.. And I haven’t contacted him either...What is going on? WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW? Please help me..x
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reader, Spendy +, writes (12 January 2009):
Spendy is verified as being by the original poster of the question thak you..xx
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reader, sweet pea23 +, writes (12 January 2009):
He isn't worth the cost of a text, don't waste your credit. You will in the future meet someone way better, he didn't even wish you happy new year or bother to let you know he wanted to stop seeing you. He blamed you saying you were cheating to make you feel bad. Don't contact him again and if he tries to get in touch, blank him!
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (12 January 2009):
move on its clear this guy doesn't love you, don't bother calling and texting it will only hurt you more.
get busy with your life,do something you enjoy soon you will meet someone who will love you whole heartedly
he is a coward and can't come out to say he no longer wants you but instead he blames you. even if he calls later on its because he will want sex from you or the girl he has been pursuing or seeing has dumped him
don't settle for second best. you deserve so much better
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Sweetheart he has transferred guilt on to you and that just isn't fair.
I suspect he is the guilty party here and possibly he has been talking to someone else or even seeing someone else. Why go through the whole argument thing and then reassure you that he wants to be with you and then not contact you for 2 weeks.
You have to face facts here, you phoned and then you text him and you have heard nothing. If you want to send him one more text or email if you have his address and say that you have had enough and you are not going to sit around being ignored, you need to get on with your life and if he doesn't have the guts to even talk to you then you don't want to know. Tell him that you are fed up with being called a cheater when you have done nothing wrong and now this has raised alarm bells for you that HE may be the guilty party and all he was doing was saying MORE SEX or your out.
Dump him before he does it to you as he has left you hanging and so if he thinks treat them mean, keep them keen scenario is going to work then you have outwitted him.
You deserve so much more than what this guy has given you and to be perfectly honest after only 3 months and he started playing up after 2 then you have not invested years of your emotions and it is easier to move on when you have not been in a relationship for a long time.
You are gorgeous and you need to believe in yourself again, he has put you down and called you a liar and you are feeling vunerable and insecure. You certainly don't need someone like that as a boyfriend you deserve a guy who is going to treat you right and be there for you and want to see you not ignore you.
Be strong, keep smiling and move on sweetheart there are so many other guys who are a better prospect for you.
Perhaps you need to surround yourself with your female friends and have a night out and enjoy yourself. You don't have to go looking for the first guy who comes along, give yourself some time to regain your confidence and wellbeing again.
Just cut the ties now and you will feel so much happier in the long run. It hurts at first but the longer you let it go on the harder it is to move forward emotionally.
Keep us posted eh!.
BFN
Country Woman
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