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He has two jobs and I am feeling neglected because I don't see him! Am I being selfish?

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Question - (8 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2007)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

ok am i just being selfish? my boyfriend is working two jobs, though i'm pretty sure he only really needs to be doing one, and he works about 60 hours a week. but when he comes home he does more work. all week, all weekend. he has no time for me at all. i know he loves me but i'm feeling neglected. am i being selfish?

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntHave you told him this? as he might not realise how it is affecting you, if not try sitting down and telling him how you are feeling and if he does not want to do anything about it you might have to look at your relationship and wether it's going anywhere.

Take care.xx.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (9 June 2007):

nologo agony auntYou do not know your boyfriend well enough.

There must be a reason why he has two jobs.

Problem here: "i know he loves me but i'm feeling neglected".

You should talk to him about it and listen to what he'll say.

He will answer your "am i being selfish" to a certain extent.

After that you may need to think why you call him "boyfriend".

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