| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 4 years now - we are both 20 but I'm at university and he working and living at home. I love him with all my heart, but I am extremely insecure and once checked his email account. I found he'd just signed up to a dating site, and since that I've been checking each night (I know I shouldn't). Basically, he's been contacting other women to meet up for sex - as far as I know he hasnt yet and has no arrangements to - but also with MEN. He's in the process of arranging a meet up - and today he called me to say that I can't see him for the weekend as he's working. He still tells me how much he loves me, and I still believe him. I can't figure out whats going on - as we are booking holidays together and talking of moving in with each other in the future. I don't know what to think ?!
View related questions:
insecure, living at home, university Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Thanks for the answer (I wrote the question). The thing is, I love him so very much and cant imagine how I'd cope without him - but he still tells me how much he loves me, and he spoils me - just as nothing has changed. I genuinely believe he does love me - but I can't figure out why he'd do this too. Maybe as we've been eachother first sexual partners and have been together for 4 years, he wants to experience other things without losing me ? What do you think ? :S
A
female
reader, lisa_01  +, writes (22 February 2006):
 confront him about this, if his not honest or becomes defensive then you know someothing is going on, if i had evidence like that i would not even bother with someone like that id just leave him. Maybe he is bi-sexual and is too scared to tell you.
...............................
|
