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My ex bf treated me wonderfully..but this new much older guy...seems moody and no fun!

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Question - (21 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I need some advice about my boyfriend. My ex was a really loving guy and worshipped the ground I walked on but I left him for the guy I'm with now. Don't get me wrong, it was the right decision, as I no longer loved my ex but it's been hard adapting to the new relationship.

My new boyfriend is older than me by 10 years and he just seems so tired of everything; sex, relationships, women and me. He moans when I'm in a bad mood and moans that I'm annoying when I'm in a good mood!!! I just can't win and it's upsetting me because I don't feel I can be myself around him.

I know relationships with older guys are different but I just don't feel very loved or anything now compared to the pedestal my ex put me on. I don't want to be spoilt, but some attention every now and then wouldn't go a miss!!! Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006):

get rid of the grumpy old fart and find someone with more vigor!! Not all people are sooks because of their age...this guy sounds like he's got problems don't waste your energy on him. And I know what it's like to have to stop yourself being you ...it's very taxing!! Ditch Him!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006):

Break up and go for someone else. Relationships nowadays are pretty frail anyway. What's stopping you from pursuing your happiness with someone else?

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