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My boyfriend has not told his ex about us

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Question - (24 November 2004) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2009)
A , anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I am totally in love with a wonderful Man. We have been together for a year this month and are now living together in a flat rented by me while we do up a bungalow nearby that he has bought with a view of us moving into it together in the near future. He has a three year old child by his ex partner who still doesn't know about me. I have met most of his family and vice versa, and they all really like me and vice versa. We are so happy together but he still jumps when she rings him and does favours for her that don't concern his child. He also is dragging his heels about telling her about me and that really hurts along with doing these favours for her. I have told him how upset I feel and he says he understands and that he will tell her but I still think he will leave it for a long while. I want him to tell her now. This is starting to upset our relationship. Help!

Yours hopefully

J

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A female reader, Sometimes It Just Happens United States +, writes (26 December 2009):

He shouldn't have to.

Maybe he is so secure in the fact you two love each other he thinks it will show.

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A female reader, ilovemb United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2009):

ilovemb agony auntwell either tell him to or give him time...

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2005):

harshbutfair agony aunt"Let it go". You just need to give him time.

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