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writes: I was with this guy for about a couple of months, we met on a dating site..he has Mommy issues, he is in his 30s amd his mom lives with him but they constantly fight she belittles him and he just takes iy because she has no where else to go..He ended our relationship because he was too stressed out amd said he cant be responsible for someone else..It caught me off guard because we were getting along great and I really cared for him alot. He also kept telling me that Im a great person then all of a sudden he stops talking to me..I msged him and he said hes having a hard time and isnt talking to very much people theae days, but he is posting things on social media, taking selfies.then he restricts me on fb..but he also checks my snapstories, but he cant day anything to me...Then I noticed he is back on the dating site tjat we met on....I feel like I need to let him go and delete him off everything because ot will definitely mess me up if he ended up being with someone else...but Its like I cant move on because Im so scared that what if he changed his mind and wants to be eithh me...its so hard to see him What should I do??
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 June 2017):
 You need to let him go for your own benefit. I doubt he will change his mind, he has issues and he didn't see a future with you, it can be a tough pill to swallow but it is something that you need to accept. Block and delete him from your life and meet someone who is interested in you.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (12 June 2017):
 I agree, but I really suggest you NOT contact him at all even to wish him well. That just makes you look desperate and it could make it harder for you to move on. Taking him back after dumping you out of the blue would set a very bad precedent.
He broke up with you. He's clearly not worried about losing you to someone else. That says it all.
So don't you worry. You don't need the baggage and, as Honeypie says, you don't need to be a revolving door.
Block, delete and don't look back.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (11 June 2017):
 There are plenty of guys out there every bit as "nice" as him but without the baggage and who will be HONEST with you.
YOU ARE WORTH BETTER.
Take a deep breath, delete him and block him on EVERYTHING, and move on. He is in your past now. Look forward.
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (10 June 2017):
 i think you are right no point in it , and you don't want to ever end up with the 2 of them and you living in the same place , you are doing right to move on
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 June 2017):
 Oh, LET him go!
And BLOCK him from all your social media, snapchat etc.
Even if he DOES change his mind, he might change it again and again and treat YOU like a revolving door.
If you have to WISH him well, BLOCK him and move on.
He is NOT in a good state to DATE or be with anyone. You can't save him from himself or his mother.
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